How do you handle a controlling mother?

Now you are an adult you can set boundaries for yourself. Learn to compromise and negotiate with your mum when you are able to spend time together such as family functions. Be honest and tell your mum that you are sharing an apartment with your boyfriend.You are an adult and your mum can no longer control your life, career ,where and who you live with.They are ultimately your decisions and the key answer is that you have to stand up for yourself.Stop worrying about what your mum thinks.You no longer need her approval.