How to be funner to talk to?

lol i used to be the same way i would never talk to anyone unless they talked to me first or if they were talking to my friends and decided to include me lol but like i eventually got over that lol like i mean i found out that it doesnt matter what you talk about i mean sometiems when you talk about something random it eventually leads to another topic and then on like i usually start with like "hi wats up" when im talking to ppl online and stuff then talk about their day upcoming days you know pay attention to their life and see how their doing and like trust me you will become a lot funner to talk too i mean i used to be the ame way till i started getting over my fear about what ppl would think about me and i would just say whats on my mind i mean granted i never said anything that would hurt the person's feeling but yea i mean just be yourself i mean i used to lioke barely be able to talk to a girl now i can talk to a girl no prob. i mean like granted i only talk to my friends i mean im not trying to get with them or anything i already met the girl of my dreams but anyway i would of never done that unless i started talking more i mean like it doesnt matter what you talk about if you know that person try to appeal to what they like to talk about and if you don't know that person try to find out more about them and they will do the same back and its just a give and take and thats my answer lol if u dont like it sorry its not good lol and btw ur my second person i answered a question for lol starting to liek doing this