I feel as if I have no chance of getting into a good college despite the amount of work I put in....!!?

I am currently taking 3 APs, honors math, and a Judaic curriculum. My school day is from 8-5:30 and I am up until 2 am every day doing homework. I have double the cles a person in public school has because I have 6 Jewish cles and less cltime for each AP so I have to teach myself. I am a lawyer in mock trial, model un, environmental club, charity work, and academic bowl. I have no life anymore and school is draining but I NEED to get into an ivy league. the psats brought hope for that down though because im bad at standardized testing!! Despite my 4.0 in school i feel like a failure because there are a million people who still manage to do better, more, and have perfect sat scores. Am i doing all of this work for nothing? I feel like i am going to end up in the same type of college that people get into without any of this.