The story goes like...there was this muslim guy i loved&wanted to marry. i have seen him since 2 years&felt...?

...attracted to , but with time he started showing interest, looking at me etc..and then after 2 years we started talking to each other, and then he said he loved me and wud marry me. infact he met my ppl at home and we even bought the ornaments n stuff, n then this guy bolts off. and never gave a call. then 2 years went by again, and then i called up a friend of his and enquired him if tht guy has got married. and he said he wud findout, but then he tells me tht he knows allabt dat guy he was just cheating etc etc, and proposes to me and tells me tht he will marry me. he sayd tht he had seen me, and like my looks , tho i dont remember ever seeing him, so we meet in a mall, and i like his looks too, he is hansdome and tall-er than the former guy. so this meeting happens on tuesday evening. and i agreed and told him i liked his looks too so i agree to marry him. then later tht night he calls and tells me tht he has a problem, hez afraid imight deny him if he reveals it, then tellls me tht he had already been in love with a girl since so mnay years and tht his parents have already spoken to tht girls prents and his marriege wud happen after december. he is a muslim and she too is a muslim. so i switchd off my cellphoe when he called again. and next day morning he came to my house and convinces me, tht he will marry me first then later marry her without divorcing me. he will tell her abt it later say after some years.he will love both of us equally. and so i get convinced and agree, tho my mom is sceptic and annoyed abt it. he agrees to marry me in d hindu style by tying the mangalsutr in d hindu way inside a temple, to convince my mom. so on friday morning during the aarti he ties the taali/mangal sutr on my neck and puts d ring on my finger, standing inside the main wall of the temple(as he is a muslim he doesnt enter the inner walls, but still its inside d compound wall and one can directly see the goddesses idol from d place where we stood). then after a few days he talks abt taking a lancer car, {mayb as jehez}mom says tht he didnt inform this to his parents , only me him and mom-as witness, so she insisted on registering the marriage. then he says he cant do tht coz he has to register the other girl. and he talks of doing a nikah with me also simultaneously, and for tht i say d kalma and gets converted to islam informally, but then after tht he doesnt seem to talk much abt nikah, but once when d topic came abt regisetering, mom said she wudnt buy d car until he registers d marriage, which he doesnt.and he says he doesnt need the car. a month goes by, and now he says he is scared tht the other girl may find out abt this and breakup with him etc, and has stopped coming to meet me or talking to me.but since he tied the mangal sutra on my neck-tht too inside a temple during d aarati time, my mind doesnt allow me to forget abt it and marry a guy whose proposal came sometime way back last year(who doesnt know abt all this and is too keen on marrying me).i can wait for my husband(d guy who tied d mangal sutr) hopin tht oneday he might come back, tho he gave no guarentees abt it) or i can choose to say yes to the NRIz proposal and get married to him(he will surely register d marriage-he earns well and is capable with a good job and settled in life-but rather short and unattractive, whom my mind doesnt like). i can even stay single working looking after myself(hoping he wud come,against hope..knowing well ttht95%he wont come)and as a miracle he might come,whoknows...i dont know wht to do.....wht do u think i shud do?